{"id":3639,"date":"2015-05-26T14:20:49","date_gmt":"2015-05-26T14:20:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thebadassbreastfeeder.com\/?p=3639"},"modified":"2015-05-26T14:20:49","modified_gmt":"2015-05-26T14:20:49","slug":"youre-making-me-feel-guilty","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thebadassbreastfeeder.com\/?p=3639","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;You&#8217;re Making Me Feel Guilty&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sharing information is not an attack on you. It is not designed to make you feel guilty. In fact, NOT sharing information is a direct attack on our authority as parents. Not having information is directly related to many of our regretful parenting decisions (certainly for me).<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Fact: formula use comes with risk. If you decide to use it then I support you and you are a great mom, but do not make that decision as I did, based on lies from corporations and misinformation from medical professionals. Make an informed decision, one that you will remain confident about forever. I am not criticizing you. I am criticizing corporations and medical professionals for perpetuating lies in pursuit of the bottom line.<\/p>\n<p>The mission of this page is rooted in my early breastfeeding experiences, the experiences that nearly ended my breastfeeding journey because I didn\u2019t have any information. Information is vital to our power as parents and women in our mission to protect our children. We are stronger now that we have this information.<\/p>\n<p>If you choose to reject this information this is your right, but do not suggest that I shouldn\u2019t share it. Not sharing information is a tactic for keeping the masses ignorant and controllable. This is not what we want for ourselves.<\/p>\n<p>The next time you feel compelled to type, \u201cyou\u2019re making me feel guilty,\u201d please stop and consider what it is you are trying to say. 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