{"id":4730,"date":"2017-12-25T18:08:15","date_gmt":"2017-12-25T18:08:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thebadassbreastfeeder.com\/?p=4730"},"modified":"2018-01-15T18:10:16","modified_gmt":"2018-01-15T18:10:16","slug":"breastfeeding-and-the-holidays","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thebadassbreastfeeder.com\/?p=4730","title":{"rendered":"Breastfeeding and the Holidays"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-4731\" src=\"https:\/\/thebadassbreastfeeder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/24799564_1653154141418758_8529530863729388622_o-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Abby Theuring, The Badass Breastfeeder, breastfeeding \" width=\"740\" height=\"555\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thebadassbreastfeeder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/24799564_1653154141418758_8529530863729388622_o-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/thebadassbreastfeeder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/24799564_1653154141418758_8529530863729388622_o-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/thebadassbreastfeeder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/24799564_1653154141418758_8529530863729388622_o-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/thebadassbreastfeeder.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/24799564_1653154141418758_8529530863729388622_o.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 740px) 100vw, 740px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The holiday season is upon us! This means breastfeeding around extended family. It&#8217;s a positive experience for some people. For some people it&#8217;s downright awful.<\/p>\n<p>Let me tell you that you are not required to change anything about your parenting choices when you are around others. It doesn&#8217;t matter who it is or where you are. Even someone else&#8217;s house. You are not required to leave the room to bre<span class=\"text_exposed_show\">astfeed unless you find this helpful such as moving to a quiet area so baby is not distracted. You are not required to move to make others comfortable. You are not required to cover yourself to make others comfortable. You not required to provide anyone with an explanation about how long you plan to breastfeed, why you feel the need to do it in the open or any other questions that makes you feel put on the spot. If you want to engage family in conversations about why these decision are good for your family then by all means, it can be a teaching moment. 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